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I'm Tonia and this is my family. There's Hubs, my wonderful partner; Bug, my darling daughter; and Boo, my charming son. We are the Collins clan. We are a homeschooling family who try our best to live out God's will for our lives every day. There are lots of stumbles along the way, but we love each other and this little life we're carving out for ourselves. Recently we found ourselves called to make some big changes in our lives so we're packing up the McMansion and moving out to a little farm in need of a lot of TLC. We have tons to learn and tons to do and we invite you to share the journey as we turn our not-so-new heap into a home.

Sunday, October 25, 2020

The Bathroom Remodel

 You probably won't be surprised when I tell you a lot has changed at the Heap since I last blogged. Nearly 20 months has gone by since I revealed the kitchen remodel. Since then, we've made some decisions about homesteading and our lives in general which include a refocus on the Heap and the lifestyle we were so excited to embrace in the beginning. But, I'll share all that later because let's be honest- you just want to see the BATHROOM!



You may or may not remember the lovely bathroom pre-remodel. After seven and a half years at the Heap, I had gotten used to it. In the beginning, I was super creeped out by the grody floors and disgusted by the wallpaper walls that could not be cleaned because getting them wet caused them to start to disintegrate. But, over time I just didn't really notice too much anymore. We fully moved into the space, I maximized storage to the best of my ability, and we just had the bathroom we had. No biggie. I didn't really expect the bathroom remodel to happen any time soon and I was fine with that. 

In July, the Hubs lost his job. After a little bit of shock and, maybe some dismay, we quickly decided to embrace this change as a gift. If he was not working, he'd have plenty of time to focus on a remodel. The bathroom was the last room in the main part of the house that needed done and we had avoided it because we really couldn't be without a bathroom for months and months. A month or two, we could totally manage, though, and if you're going to have to use a port-a-potty for awhile, the warm summer months are the perfect time to do so. 



The original plan was to rent a port-a-potty, take wipe down baths most of the time, and rely on neighbors' hospitality for a weekly shower, but the Hubs is smarter than that, of course. He quickly realized that he could rig up a temporary shower in the cellar. It wasn't the prettiest environment to shower in, but it worked perfectly, and I did not have to go even one day without access to a shower. As usual, I'm so grateful for my Hubs and his resourcefulness. The port-a-potty came in handy for having a bathroom to use while work was being done, but we only had to rely on it completely for about two weeks. The rest of the time, the indoor toilet was operating. The Hubs really did everything possible to make sure I was comfortable during this remodel. He loves me.



The first thing to go was the window. The original window had, at some point since we moved to the Heap, been hit with a rock, breaking a hole into the outer pane. Bugs flew into the hole and couldn't find their way back out, which created this horrifying shadow box of dead bugs. It was disgusting. Now, there's a brand new, clean, window. It is not disgusting.





I would have loved to have been able to put in a separate shower and tub, but try as we might, we just couldn't make that work in the space, without losing a lot of storage. In such a small house, storage is just too precious. So, we kept a tub/shower combo. I really wanted a deeper bathtub, which was surprisingly difficult to find. I also wanted a tile surround, but the Hubs was adamantly against it. In the end, we compromised with a special tub, that is several inches deeper and has a curved edge and a fiberglass surround. It's pretty and clean. I'm happy.





One of our first purchases for the bathroom is one of the things I am most excited about. I never thought I'd get so happy about a toilet, but getting old changes you people. This is an awesome toilet. I knew I wanted a toilet that did not have seat hinges on the back of the toilet- they get grimy and gross about 3 hours after you put the new seat on. I also knew that toilets can be made without those hinges because the toilets in the hospital, and many commercial locations, do not have them. But, I wasn't sure if I'd have to buy a commercial toilet to get what I wanted. I was delighted when we went to Menard's to look for toilets and there it was- the perfect toilet! The hinges are located on the side instead of the back, so no little knobs of dried pee and poo to deal with! Eureka! If nothing else happened in this bathroom, my life has been improved exponentially. I love my toilet!



One of the most delightful parts of this remodel has been watching the Hubs and our son work together. Noah has become more man than boy in the past year and he is able to keep pace with his dad. He has learned so much and will be well equipped to care for his own house and family one day. The two of them did almost all the work on the bathroom with very little help from Jenna or I. I had time to work in the kitchen, taking care of canning and meal prep. This remodel was much less stressful on me as a result. I sure do love my guys. 






I decided to take one of my accent colors from the rest of the house and make it the star in the bathroom. I think it makes the room look bright and cheery, but also crisp and clean. I stuck with my usual minimalist farmhouse tendencies for decorations and ended up with a beautiful, simple bathroom. Noah told me it looks like a hotel bathroom. I'm choosing to believe that he means it is stunningly beautiful and he feels so lucky to get to shower in there. 

So, what now? Well, like a lot of people, we've had plenty of time to reflect on our lives and spend more time than usual at home. We like it. We had really lost focus in the past few years and homesteading had steadily fallen to the back burner. Some things needed to go, but there's a lot we still want to do and providing as much as we can for ourselves is still important to us. Right now the Hubs is working at home. He has time to focus on projects around here that will push our homesteading forward. We don't know how long he will do this, but it's an awesome opportunity right now and I'm excited to see how our homestead comes together. I am working outside the home, at a job I adore, but I have let go of the extras. I no longer teach or lead for AHG. I have more days at home than I have at work. This allows me time to get back to homesteading. I had an amazing garden this year, with plans for an even bigger one next year. Along with gardening comes canning and food preservation that I need time to be able to do. I've also been on an intense health journey and time outside, doing things I love, is a big part of my healing. I hope to get back to blogging with more purpose, but you'll be seeing the blog change a bit. We still have some remodeling to do, but now we're more about settling into a permanent homesteading lifestyle. We've experimented a lot, found out a lot about what we can and can't do. It was all a fun adventure. Now, we have to embrace the things we want and need while letting go of things that are too difficult, too expensive, or just not good for us. I'll be posting more about my health journey, gardening, and homestead life. I hope you'll stick around for this new phase. 


Tonia